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If I fall asleep with the baby, or my boyfriend and I argue he’ll go in the bathroom by himself and bathe, and master bate to porn. Is this normal? He’s done it almost every night now. Tonight I fell asleep with the baby and walk into the bathroom and unlock it to him jacking off, saying “I texted you I was gonna touch myself, shouldn’t have fell asleep”. Wtf. Biggest turn off and so disrespectful in my eyes.

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That is incredibly disrespectful. The right thing to do is probably talk to him about it and tell him that it bothers you, but you could also be petty since he seems a little immature from an outsider’s point of view. You could lock him out of the room and when he wants back in tell him that you’re touching yourself and that he shouldn’t have gone to masturbate.

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Maybe jealous that he isn't your number one anymore no offence but he sounds like a selfish prick who is disrespectful and childish.

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What an asshole. Whether he is jealous or not he needs to grow up. That is beyond disrespectful to you and to your child to be treating you like that. And not to mention selfish. I would be irate😤

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Ok, reading the comments I didn’t see this question answered: is he jacking odd because he’s not satisfied? Is he somehow getting a better nights sleep then you, and this has more energy and a higher sex drive? Or, like others have said, is he upset he is no longer your first priority, and this is his way of dealing with it?

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Like is the issue with him touching himself or the text or what? Men Jack off to porn its what they do. Im really not tryin to be bitchy im honestly just curious what the problem is

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Fighting and then doing that is one thing... But I don’t see any issue with a partner masturbating when their partner is essentially unavailable. 
He probably sees you as very sexually unavailable with the new baby. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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He probably is insecure or jealous of you spending all your attention and time on the new baby. I know it’s immature, but maybe you two should have a discussion about your special time. He seems to be crying for attention. I can be completely wrong, but hopefully you guys can get through it. Wishing you the best. ❤️

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