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Pregnancy and dna test.
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What do you do when you have left a relationship and your starting a new one and find out your pregnant? Is it the ex's baby or the guy your starting the new relationship with? Problem is ex wants a child. New relationship does not as he already has three. What to do? Over three weeks late sick everyday and affraid to test! Any advice is helpful. Im a mom of three but feel like I'm in denial. IDK....again help or advice appreciated!
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What you do is put on your big girl pants and take a pregnancy test. Then if pregnant you talk to both and let them know. You don't have to have a relationship with your ex, a simple DNA will reveal the father. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but the sooner you start being proactive the better.
Ca
Not doing anything won't help. If the one you want leaves, you never had him anyway. The ex, you just need boundaries with him.
Am
True just scare thst the one i eanna be with will walk away and the one i dont wsnt will be up my butt sideways
You do a DNA test because they have the right to know if it's their child and their child has the right to know for sure who their father is.
gj
You do a pregnancy test first, and then go from there. There is a DNA test that you can do while you're pregnant that uses your blood and it uses free floating fetal cells or something. But I would just be honest and say that you're pregnant and there is a chance that they are the father.
Am
I agree but it how to tell them both with one its gonna be easy he gonna hope, become overly obsessive and want to be there although hes abusive and we didnt work out and hes an ex for a reason .....and the other doesnt want one at all he has three and idk with him notbwanting anymore and all hes going through exactly how to tell him
gj
Assuming you're actually pregnant, of course.
Did you have unprotected sex w both of them? And how far after did you sleep w the new guy
Ke
Ah ok. No way to know then besides a DNA test. But! You need to make sure you’re even pregnant first
Am
Unfortunately yes and i know better but the moment was caught up and right and well yeah....within a 2-3 day time frame
Based off your lmp and your estimated conception, who did you sleep with at that time? Or were you sleeping with both at the same time? Like say your lmp was 12/1, you probably ovulated somewhere around 12/14-12/18? Try to figure it out!! And take a test!!
Am
My periods are like clock work. Problem is ovulation was the 6th through the 12th and i was with one the 8th and the other the 10th i know that sounds bad and it wasnt intended but kind of happened like that
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