Help!

Renee

Ok so before I start this rant and ask for any tips I'd like to admit this is totally my fault. I have spoiled my second worse than my first. So we are 9mths and 1 week in to our bf journey. Occasionally she has a bottle but that's maybe once or twice every few weeks so I can sleep and daddy can feed her. Otherwise it's all boob. Yes she eats babyfood and people food. THE PROBLEM: This girl will not sleep. She sleeps with me. Another stupid decision I made, although 2 weeks in it was a brilliant plan bc she slept. And when she got up every 2 hours i just fed her and she slept better. I didnt have to get up, get her up, etc. The problem isnt her being in the bed with me. As long as she sleeps. But she is getting worse. Every 2-3hrs sometimes even 1.5 shes up wanting the boob. Shes not hungry. Shes 22lbs. Shes just spoiled. It's her crutch. And I don't know how to break it. She refuses a paci. Shes not a thumb sucker like her brother. Shes getting fussier then usual bc shes overly tired. And we are cutting teeth. So please tell me I'm not alone. I broke down and bought the ready to feed similiac supplementation formula last night bc it was on sale and thinking maybe it will satisfy her longer, but i couldn't bring myself to give it to her. Thankfully my husband said dont do it tonight bc I was about to. He doesnt care what I do hes just trying to be supportive in reminding me no matter how stressed I am at the moment I've got this far with no issues so why give in now. I mean we have had 0 issues with nursing.

Give me some tips. Bc we are all suffering. And I thought I could do the CIO but it shattered my heart. So that's a no go. I use to be tough. Then i had kids. Pic bc shes so cute. Help!!!!