Ftm here I’m due in July, I have decided that if my newborn stars to fall asleep or is asleep i don’t want anyone holding her not even me or my husband. My reason is because two months after she is born i have to pack up my home an a separate work place to move out of state so i want her to be as comfortable an possible through the process (able to fall asleep without being held) Is it wrong of me to tell people I don’t want the baby held at these times?