I was in a relationship for almost 4 years. Over the course of this entire relationship we always had arguments and break ups because this man did not know how to treat or love me. Don’t get me wrong, he had a very good heart and did love me, but our relationship felt more like friendship even though i did have romantic feelings. I would verbalize these emotions to my boyfriend at the time and he’d tell me that he’s just not that kind of man and to go find someone else if I’m so unhappy. I finally took his advice and ended the relationship and realized that my friend of 2 years was there waiting for me. This man always took such good care of me and was so patient with me the entire time. We had never had sex. We connected mentally on a level that’s far beyond my comprehension. He opens every door, holds every bag, solves every problem, wipes away every tear, and gives me everything i need before i need it. I push any woman who is not completely happy in their relationship to take that leep of faith. Leave him and go find what you deserve. I’ve found the man of my dreams. The type of love that when you get it, you have to keep it like a secret.