How do you stay calm?

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I am 4+0 today, and I am just so worried. I miscarried at 5+1 last month, and while I am so happy, intellectually, that I’m pregnant again so soon, I can’t stop dwelling on how devastated I’ll be if I miscarry again. How are you all staying calm in the middle of the waiting?

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I am pregnant around 4 weeks as well and I’m terrified just to sneeze. I’m worried to do anything, lay on my stomach, move incorrectly or sneeze. I’m stressing out over it.

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I’m 4+4 and had a MC last May. I’m nervous but at the same time it can’t be controlled. The likelihood of having multiple MCs is actually low even though when you are on this app it feels like everyone is having one or had one. But most people I know either haven’t had one or only had one. Maybe we should be relieved because we already had ours?

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Same here! MC last december and pregnant again. So happy, but yet so scared sometimes! Can’t tell you how to stay calm, sorry. Hope you have a healty 9 months!

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I’m the same way. I had a chemical in October and I’m currently a little over 4 weeks. I spend most of my days worried something is going to happen. I have my second set of betas drawn tomorrow and will meet with my obgyn afterwards. My first question I’m asking her is for some advice on how to relax a bit. I try and just take it one day at a time and thank god for every single day I make it and ask that he seems me through. It’s so scary and nerve racking but most pregnancies do end with a baby in your arms so let’s all try and focus on that!!

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Same here. You’re not alone. I wish I had good advice to give you, but I just tell myself to take it one day at a time. Some things are beyond our control. It’s hard not to get excited, but I’m afraid of getting too attached myself, because of how painful the loss was personally for me. It sounds like you barely had time to process and mourn before getting a BFP. I will pray and hope that we have our rainbow babies! Sending big sticky baby vibes to you!

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I am the same, I mc at 5 weeks at the start of jan, just found out I’m 3w+6d can’t helps but think if I happens again 😩

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I’m in the same exact boat. 5+1 today and i MC at 8 weeks in August. Only thing that helps is keeping my mind busy. Whether that’s work, reading, watching a move... anything to take my mind off it.

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