How often do you see your boyfriend a week?

Jo

Jo

My boyfriend (20) of 6 months and I (18) went through a rough patch recently but made up. He said he’d like to only hang out around twice a week. Before we were hanging out around 4 times a week. At the time I thought “okay I can do that” but not a few weeks later I’m really sad because I feel like I don’t see him anymore. We’ve seen each other twice a week for an average of 5 hours. How do I handle this situation. I really love him and don’t want to break up with him. Is it normal to not see each other this much?

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Ka

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Usually 6-7 even while working and going to school full time. Sometimes we'll just come to the others house just to sleep together in the same bed

St

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Seems kind of weird that he limit yalls time together. When my boyfriend lived 10 min from me, we saw each other all the time. Of course there were times he was busy or times I was busy so that was understandable but we still made an effort to see one another. It wasn’t about “oh, I only wanna see you this many times a week”, that seems kind of weird. Now that he lives 45 min away from me, we alternate weekends. He spent the weekend at my house last weekend and I’ll be spending the weekend at his house this weekend. We sleep together so we get to spend more time together but it’s always sad when I have to leave Sunday morning to go to work because that’s his only day off so it kinda sucks but we make an effort to be with one another. Seems kind of weird, I don’t know. I would just be upfront with him about how you feel and ask him why he wants to limit your time together.

St

Stacey • Feb 6, 2019
I don’t know how he’s ever gonna be married or have a life partner if he feels suffocated. Maybe he isn’t ready to be in a relationship.

Jo

Jo • Feb 6, 2019
He said before he felt suffocated.

an

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I mean why would he limit you to a certain point like, as long as you both have time give it a go and be together. My boyfriend is an architecture student amd is very busy but never did he tell me to just meet 2x a week. As long as he's available he'll come to me especially now I'm about to move to Australia and he'll be staying here in the Philippines. It's really going to be hard for you girl because ya know, when you love that person you'll crave his attention. Talk to me if you need advice we'll see what we have to do 😘

Jo

Jo • Feb 6, 2019
He said he felt suffocated before

Ma

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Everyday, but we live together so that’s kinda expected 😁

a

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I mean I live with my boyfriend so maybe my comment is redundant lol but it would upset me to see so little of him, but that’s because I prefer physical interactions since I’m not very good at replying to messages. My friend on the other hand sees his girlfriend every week for 1/2 days and it works for them. It’s about the quality of the time you spend together. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and suggest fun things to do so that you always have a great time when you do see him.

Ma

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When we first started our relationship we used to see each other every day because of school, then we were meeting each other 3-5 days/week because we had similar hours in our universities, but now after 6 years of relationship we see each other 1-3 (max) times cause we have very different hours and so little free time so only at weekends we can meet.. There are times I sleep at his house at weekends so we spend 2 whole days together and it's amazing, because I really miss him on the weekdays..

Ja

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When im at classes during the week its friday-sunday or monday-Thursday. During holidays i spend 2-3 weeks.