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Question

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship at the moment so once in a while we do stuff over the phone to keep it interesting. And phone sex is great and all... when your boyfriend doesnt finish way before you do. I have always taken a while to finish but the time difference between him and I finishing is long and awkward. He tries to last longer and I try to cum sooner but it just hasnt been working. Does anyone have any tips for what I can do?

Answer

definitely get some toys! if you dont know already try and figure out if u come faster/easier from clitoral stimulation or penetration. for clitoral id suggest a “magic wand” you can buy them at any sex shop, or online sex shop OR amazon, theyll just be marked as “massage wands”. if its penetration id go for something more like the jack rabbit, for sure at any sex shop idk about amazon, it has g spot and clitoral simulation 10/10. or just go for a traditional dildo, you’ll learn what works best over time. it sounds weird but drink a bunch of water before you call, so that youll feel like u gotta pee when you guys get started. itll make it easier to feel aroused/cum. and most importantly remember its totally normal to take a while to cum, or not cum at all. dont be mad at ur self and remember to remind ur bf that its something u cant help and not his fault. (they get insecure about it) and theres always faking it if u know ur just not gonna.

Answer

Maybe try getting some toys to help speed the process. Or maybe ask him to try and say different stuff that might get you more aroused to help finish faster.

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