So my sister in law has been driving me insane. I just married her brother and we are planning on having our wedding in August so we can afford a big white wedding and have fun. But as of right now, we are married and living together.

Last year, I had a miscarriage and a month later my hubbys sister announced she was pregnant when none of us even knew she had a boyfriend. After that it all went downhill.

I started planning our wedding and she got engaged so she started planning hers. She never set a date so I was telling his parents I wanted September 21st and then a week later she threw a big fit because she wanted September 22nd. She forced me to change because she wanted her date and didn’t even think we should get married in the same year as her. She had her baby and wanted her wedding even though nothing had been set in stone. So I changed my date and stuck to it. Meanwhile she changed hers 3 times since that incident.

Then, I told her my color scheme and decor and menu and all that so NOTHING would be the same and stuff. I showed her the dress I bought and accessories I was going to buy during a sale at David’s bridal.

A few weeks later her fiancé cheated on her and theee days after that she picked her dress and veil. But it was the veil I showed her that I was going to buy. I reminded her of this and she laughed and said it didn’t matter and got to the store the minute it opened on the day of the sale and bought it.

We didnttalk for weeks. Then she aidI was judging her as a mom, which shesdoing a terrible job at in my opinion but I never told her that or told her how to parent. I raised my siblings since birth and miscarried my own child. She had the nerve to tell me that I had no idea what being a mom is and I have no children and no one wants to hear what I have to say and that she’s going to tell everyone that I cried because she had a baby first. Take in that she didn’t know about the miscarriage and I did cry in front of my husband but that was only because she was pregnant while I had lost our baby. She said that me raising my siblings without my mother was just babysitting and I was no true adult or caretaker.

She copied my wedding colors and bridesmaid dress colors. She bought the same style invitations as me. She’s driving me crazy. What the heck do I do. She’s going to continue to do this forever now that I’m married to her brother.