Hello ladies. I am 17 weeks pregnant and me and the baby daddy ended up breaking up a few months ago.

We've been talking off and on since and lately hes been trying to get me back. Although I appreciate him trying to still be in my life the only issue I have is he doesnt want to go back to school to finish up with it being senior year and nor does he want to actually go out and look for a job. He hasn't done anything and I dont think it's fair for us to be together when I'm going to be the one buying everything.

We got to talking tonight and he keeps bringing up his dad. Days before we found out I was pregnant he told me his dad had made some serious threats towards my family(everyone living in the house) saying that he would come and kill everyone. Of course I wasnt happy about that as my dad was in the hospital at the time. But as we got to talking tonight he thinks it's unfair that I wont allow the kid around him vice versa. I've told him before over and over that you need to tell your dad hes not allowed to see the baby but he wont do it nor will he accept I dont want the kid around him at all.

I'm so close to just forgetting about my baby daddy period and not allowing him to see the kid. If he wants someone i consider as dangerous like his dad, i can only imagine what else he would allow for the kid.

Is this wrong of me?..