Why don’t I feel better yet?!

We found out 5 weeks ago that we’re having another girl (already have a 4 year old girl) and I’m still really upset. We tried the Shettles Method for a boy but it obviously didn’t work. We both wanted a boy so bad so our family would be complete. We’re done having kids after this one so it just really hurts knowing I’ll never have a son. My husband isn’t upset anymore but I still cry about it all the time. I’m trying to get excited but I just can’t. It’s making me really depressed.