Sincere Question-sorry if wrong group

So backstory before my question cause it'll help you determine your answer (am staying anonymously cause if it's a question that will cause hate towards me, I rather not be known)

So I lost my son at 21 weeks 3 days. After 20 weeks I read, a baby cannot be miscarried but only born or D/C or C-section (I read this after, cause I was looking up what causes placenta abruption since I was told there was no medical reason as to why it happened)

Well when I was losing my son I was in labor, I had no idea cause it was my first time, and I just gotten a baby book to read about labor and pregnancy, but anyway my mother was there calling the hositpal asking what to do (cause I was barely bleeding then) and she told them how far along I was and what I was experiencing

The lady told her there was nothing they could do but watch me until the end since I was miscarrying. It deterred me from going because I didn't want to go and if there wasn't anything they could do. I waited and suffered until something that was bulging out of me burst, it was the floodgates

I was bleeding so much that I stood in my tub until I was given a adult diaper and i got my towel.. Then changed diapers.. And off to the hositpal, when I arrived she made me wait close to 5 minutes when they knew I was coming.. I literally opened the 2nd towel(I had 2 on) to show my legs where the blood was leaking down, it even gushed at that moment proving more my point that I couldn't wait.. I ended up leaving a decent size blood stain on their carpet.. That night I went into shock, I had 3 blood transfusions (almost 4) lost my son (I had to have a c-section cause I was losing too much blood to wait), and was told I was lucky to be alive. My placenta had ditached 60-70% when they opened me, and I was 6-8cm dilated

Now my question is: Is there a possible lawsuit there? With the lady from the start deterring me, and from not even knowing what about miscarrying (she had access to nurses that would know) I feel my son's death could have been prevented or if not at least I shouldn't have been told there wasn't anything they could do so coming in would have been pointless.

Its been almost a year, will be in April.. I suffer a lot from it.. I blame myself everyday, and periods scare me because its like a flash back to that night, I regret a lot and I'm truly in pain knowing my baby didn't want to come out (he was alive and had a strong heartbeat, and that's why c-section, he died as soon as he was born) he was measuring a week ahead.. I literally found out his gender by ultrasound just 10 days before.. He was very much wanted..

Thank you for reading, if I'm wrong in the lawsuit part, please be kind about it, I'm asking cause I sincerely don't know and would like advice and other's knowledge, so if you have anything negative to say, please don't comment, its not hard to continue scrolling

Have a good day 💙

Edit: I appericate all of you ladies for replying, I don't honestly think I'll ever try to sue, I just remember my mother once saying she wanted me to cause of it...

I hold a lot of grief and regrets.. I literally found out he is(I say is cause he still exist) a boy 10 days before I lost him.. I just told my favorite ortho assistant that I was pregnant (though techically the majority knew before I didn't know how she didn't) the day before/night I went into labor.. It was a terrible sensation going to my next appointment with a flat (like just no bump) tummy and all of them staring at me.. I even wore clothing that wouldn't show a figure.. My family doesn't seem to understand how much this has mentally f*cked me, they blame my bitterness and quick to snap on my SO.. When it's all me

I may be young, I may be "able" to try again.. But I will never get my angel back