So I am due with my second baby in 6 weeks. With my first, everyone and their mother was there for labor and delivery (literally). I was okay with it at the time, but developed PPD shortly after giving birth, and became very overwhelmed with all the visitors.

This time around, I only want my husband and I at the hospital for labor and delivery. We'd also like to spend the first day alone with the baby, to bond. When we are ready to accept visitors, I'd like to keep it to 2 visitors at a time, for only like 30 minutes, and immediate family only.I just want to keep everything calm for my mental health sake.

I know some family members may take this personally and be upset with it, but it is what it is. My husband is 100% behind me on these decisions and says whatever I need, he will back me up.

My question is, should I send out a group text/email to my husband's family to let them know these wishes? Or should he tell them all himself? I just want my wishes to be VERY clear right away, so I wonder if I set these boundaries now and clearly, it would make me feel better. Let me know what you think! TIA!