Baby blues?

Question

I’m almost 2 weeks post partum and I’ve been crying everyday for about a week now. Everything is overwhelming. I’m a FTM and I didn’t know it was gonna be this difficult in spite of all the warnings people have given me about the responsibility of a newborn. My husband is very supportive but we live far away from family so it’s pretty much just us, me, my husband and the baby. I was so sure I wanted to have a baby for years and finally we have one and I can’t help but think I rushed it and should’ve enjoyed more years together with my husband. 
We are 28 years old with good jobs and some savings. I am so pretty scared about the future when we both have to go back to work and how to balance life.
I started taking small walks around the neighborhood and definitely helped with my mood. It’s just been cold and rainy lately.
I just need to vent. Thank you for reading

Answer

Having a baby is SO hard.  I feel like people don’t talk about the hard parts enough.  The incredible things about having a baby don’t take away the really challenging things.   I promise it gets easier.  I found the six week mark to be much better when we got into a bit of a routine.  Going for walks is a great idea and if you can sneak out even for ten minutes to grab a tea or a treat when you feel up to it, that can do wonders.  Hang in there, mama! 💕

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I’m 5 days postpartum. Sounds like baby blues! Or postnatal depression. It’s normal to feel that way some FTM and mainly a lot feel like this way for a few weeks or so, it’s a shock to your system having a baby no one is ever prepared for it! Of course it’s gonna be difficult there’s no doubt about that. May be worth giving it a mention to your GP, HV or FN, they’ll be able to provide you with more information and make you feel at ease. Definitely continue the walks around the neighbourhood, make sure you’re eating and getting some sleep

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You sound like me when I was 2 weeks pp. Its REALLY hard and on top of that your hormones are everywhere. Once my daughter was about a month old I felt much better. You and your baby are just getting to know each other. Soon you'll know their cries, their routine, baby will start sleeping a bit longer etc. And you'll get used to this new lifestyle. While you're feeling down though I definitely suggest an online support group (friends, family etc) and don't be afraid to vent to your husband. It really does get easier 💕

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I’d join support groups in your area

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