TTC W/ PCOS

Ive been trying for 3 years with no luck. I had family try the infertility drugs to get pregnant and they caused complications that almost killed her and forced her to deliver her baby to early. Ive taken the drugs for one cycle with no luck. But with all the risks of the medication im really afraid to try them now. Whats some other ways I can conceive w/ PCOS naturally or other medical ways. I would love to hear your stories.