Painful intercourse 11 weeks pp

Meg

I am 11 weeks pp and my husband and i have attempted to have sex twice now, but both times have had to stop because it’s so painful! Feels like it’s tearing all over again. It feels like they stitched me up extra tight maybe? I did have a huge baby vaginally and had a 2nd degree tear. Wondering if the pain is normal and what you guys have done or tried to make it less painful?