Ummmm so why am I worried?

Question

My narcissistic ex put me through  hell. He is 22. I lost 20 lbs. I'm  on different medications for anxiety and depression.  I go to a therapist every week. I changed colleges to get away since he threatened to call the police on me several times....
And now he started dating an 18 year old. Yeah. The thought  scares me to death. Apart from the usual jealousy of a new girl, he is gonna tear her apart  in a year. It'll  be the best year of her life and then it will be ripped from her. If I was called crazy and the ex before me was called crazy, the pattern will continue on...
What do I do??? I clearly cant do anything but how do I calm my mind?

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Block him on everything. Try to forget about him completely and ignore the fact he’s in a new relationship. You don’t owe this girl anything, and if he will call you crazy etc, there’s probably no point trying to tell her anything as she will take his side. Move on with your own life and focus on yourself

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I really understand wanting to help this girl see him for who he is but it’s not your place. Even if you did warn her she would think you’re just jealous or he would make her believe you’re crazy. You don’t owe her anything, she’s not a friend. As harsh as it is, she has to learn this for herself. It’s down to her whether or not she chooses to leave when his behaviour turns.

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How do you know this? Clean your aura of him- no access through social media and no contact of any kind

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No disrespect, but how do you know he will this way with her? Just saying. I know most men don’t change, but some do. Me and my ex were horrible together. He treated me badly. We were like oil and water. He had a new gf and they’ve been together for a bit and they seem like they get along. I don’t know what goes on behind close doors. I just figured there personalities mesh better. And if he is a jerk, then that’s up to her to figure out. Maybe she’s a stronger woman and won’t let her self be treated badly or won’t be tricked. It’s not your place to worry about her or him for that matter. Just be glad he isn’t in your life.

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Cut him out of your life and forget him.
Not your problem.
There are plenty of sick people in this world. You can't do anything about it anyway. Just stay out of it.

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That is her problem. My ex narc is with this girl and she wants to marry him.   She gets what she deserves. He barely bothers me now. 
When he starts lying about you just ignore it. You will never win nor change his view. It makes it worse. Block him and anyone else you both know.

Ummmm so why am I worried?

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