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sarah • 21 🌹 Lillian born 8.4.19 🌹engaged

So I’m 15 weeks pregnant and 19. My mom has known since around 7 weeks. Recently she’s started giving shit (pardon my language) because the rest of the family didn’t know. Even though me, with MY pregnancy, was not ready for them to know. I’m a private person and if something goes wrong I’d like to have to tell as few people as possible. But she didn’t tell my aunt that she’s known for so long because she feels it’s wrong she’s been “lying and keeping secrets” like if I’m not ready to tell you shouldn’t and there should be no issue. I’ve heard of women who were 23 weeks and hadn’t announced yet because it’s their choice. I am living with my mom temporarily but she’s kicking my fiancé out so I’m looking for a place to buy. We were hoping to rent but this will be quicker for us (we have a lot of money in savings to be able to out right buy a little place). She also yesterday said that 6 months is not enough time for us to have jobs so we should look into open adoption for the baby’s sake. (my fiancé literally had a job. They’re waiting for his background check to come back) and it won’t take me 6 months to find a job. I’ve never had it take 6 months to find a job. I don’t understand why everyone has to be downing on us so much. Everyone is saying we won’t be ready and we won’t have enough. Im so ready to just ditch everybody and I know I’m not telling anyone about my next pregnancy for a while. My mom officially gets to be told with everyone else. So does my fiancé’s mom.. she went around telling other people too after we told her. Sorry for the rant I just needed to get it out I guess.