Confused and heartbroken
So I’m not sure how to write this out but I will do my best. I had been dating this guy for about 2 weeks then he left to go to California for 1 week. During those first two weeks everything was perfect, at first he seemed to like me more than I liked him which was reassuring. We talked about the future like meeting parents and me going with him to California next time. Probably too fast I know but I didn’t initiate it. He seemed to really really like me. I let my guard down and was completely myself with him.
When he left things got quiet. I didn’t bother him with texts since he was working and visiting family so I thought he’s just busy and tired like he says so I’ll wait till he gets back. When he got back it stayed quiet, he said he was ridiculously tired and busy but would see how he would feel on his day off to meet. Didn’t hear from him, so the next day I asked if he was ok, he said just really busy and when I told him he was being distant he said « Just going through some stuff that I need to deal with » so I told him that I miss him and when he is ready to hang to let me know. « Alrightt thanks » he responded.
I know that there is no obvious reason for me to freak out but it seems like we are over. The same day that I asked if he was ok I reinstalled Tinder and to my horror his bio had slightly changed. We hadn’t had an exclusivity talk yet since it seemed still a bit too soon, but he had asked me if I had deleted my tinder which I had and he told me he had as well.
Basically I started to fall for him and I’m not sure what went wrong. Since our last date everything felt off. I guess I need to wait and see if he reaches out but I’m also getting ready to accept and move on. I don’t think he was lying about everything before, it seems more likely that he may have changed his mind...
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