What to expect at first appointment

Em

I'm autistic and newly pregnant with my first baby. Our first appointments with the doctor and midwife are coming up in a couple weeks.

Sadly, I don't have any family I can reach out to with questions or help with "social stories." Would anyone be willing to share their experiences with first appointments? I have /some/ idea of what to expect from books, but with anything new, I always find it helpful to hear about others' actual experiences, too :)