Am I overreacting?

I was in the hospital with intense pain in my lower abdomen/lower back and I was scared because I had never felt this type of intense pain in my entire life so the first thing I did was call my mom because I was sleeping over a friend’s hour and didn’t want to ruin my friend’s birthday party. I started panicking asking her if she could come get me because I was petrified about this pain and I couldn’t really get up from the floor. She tells me she hasn’t showered or combed her hair and tells me to take an Uber and when she’s done she will meet me there. I got upset and told her to come get me now and she sighed and said fine. We get to the hospital and I’m doubled over in pain sitting in the waiting room and she then starts complaining how she didn’t have time to comb her hair and that she had so many plans for the day and that she’s stuck at the hospital with me. I looked at her angry and ready to cry and started to tell her off when my dad butts in and says she’s right that she did have plans but I should be grateful she came to get me. I was about to tell them both off when they called my name and I went back. When we got back there, I asked her if she felt bad saying that to me and she said no so I told her she can leave and she said no because she’ll feel bad.

I was there for 7 hours and had tons of tests run on me and was completely exhausted and she said she didn’t feel like driving home so we were now stuck at my aunt’s for the night. I ask can we please go home and I get yelled at once again for being inconsiderate of how tired my mom is. Days later, I bring up what she said at the hospital when I’m feeling better can discuss this in a healthy manner and i had asked her how would she have felt bad if she had left but not felt bad basically guilt tripping me into making me feel like I’m burdening her day? She made me feel like crap ON TOP of the fact that I already felt like crap. She still has not spoken to me since I called her out. Sorry that was long.

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Sorry I can even think of acting that to my child.

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Are you a minor? If so her behavior is 100% uncalled for. And as a minor she needs to take care of you, that includes getting you if you're uncomfortable getting into an uber like that. If you're an adult, I can see why she'd be annoyed but I still think she was being an asshole. I can't imagine treating someone this way when they're in obvious pain and needed to go to the emergency room.

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Bitch. She should have just left.

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That would bother me

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Yes I do think you overreacted a little. She did bring you and she did stay. She could’ve just told you to call an ambulance or an Uber and then ignored you. Be grateful.

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Airos Ty • Feb 15, 2019
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Freya • Feb 14, 2019
I’m just saying if it’s serious there’s options lol she was there wasn’t she? She asked for opinions. Mines different than yours so come off it 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Ashley • Feb 14, 2019
Not everyone can afford an ambulance, and if she wasn't hurting that bad she probably wanyed someone she loves to take her for support and comfort but hey fuck her feelings right, i drop everything i have going if someone i love needs me without making them feel like shit about it