So we have a 2.5 yr old and a 1 yr old. Today I took a test and we’re pregnant. I am so excited. But hubby has been having a terrible week and said yesterday that we should wait to have another. He’s been really down and I feel like telling him we’re expecting won’t help the situation, just make it worse for him.

Plus, last month we lost one early on. We were trying to not get pregnant after we lost the other baby but I ovulated a week earlier than normal and we had sex 2 days before ovulation. I feel like I want it confirmed before I tell him but I would still feel terrible not telling him for a week after I found out.