So I wasn’t ttc although I was taking prenatal vitamins to strengthen my eggs in the event I did come out pregnant. I just found out I’m 3 weeks pregnant after a very faint positive in clinic urine test and a low hcg level blood test.

I tell my partner I’m pregnant and he straight out tells me he “can’t cause he has a newborn baby and he doesn’t want any more kids”. This tore me apart. Even though his old booty call before we got together just had a baby, I feel that if I or our relationship meant anything to him that me getting pregnant shouldn’t matter but in fact be an inspiration for us to continue doing better. I feel that with his reaction it says a lot and he needs to take a walk and forget about us. Am I wrong? Can I be right? How is it to be in a pregnancy alone? This will be my 4th child after 10 years so I’m starting all over again.

I need some advice, opinions, comments whatever.

#JustNeededToVent

Update: 2/24/19

After arguing and fighting for a week and almost convincing me to abort, I stood my ground and said sorry but I am having my baby. We did not speak for 24 hours and I reached out to arrange the pick up of his dog that I’m watching. We’ve been speaking like nothing has happened for 2 days and agreed to see each other tomorrow. It will be our first time face to face after I told him I’m pregnant. Wish me luck! I’ll update with what happens.