Why won’t the doctor see me?

Going on 7 months with no luck. I’m so terrified that something is wrong with me. But since doctors aren’t concerned till one year of trying I won’t know if anything is wrong till then.

Does anyone agree that this is so dumb! If there is something I can do now to help I want to do it! Instead of wasting a year of our lives. I want a little one to love and take care of so badly. I get that maybe nothing is wrong but mind as well cancel anything out in the mean time!

Curious peoples thoughts on this