Nipple play gone wrong..

Shackheil

So I love when my partner plays with or sucks my nipples BUT only during or leading up to sex (foreplay). If he touches them casually, let's say we're chilling, watching a movie or sumn and he's just playing around or when I'm not in a sexual mood or frame of mind it actually creates the opposite effect for me.. I feel repulsed even.. any of you women feel the same?