Idk what to do..

Tyler Joseph is My Dad

I am non binary and pansexual..I have no plans of coming out until I'm an adult. But I really want to come out because I am sick of being referred to "she and her" also I am sick of being told I have to wear this or that..I am always being put under stereotypes. But I'm not gonna come out until I'm older..but what should I do to help ease at least the stereotypes I'm placed under..