Moving

Anyone moved states? We want to move to NC. We have wanted to move for a while but I said I wanted to have our kids while near family. Now 3 babies later we have done that. I don’t even know where to start with moving. We own a home so we would need to sell. My husband at least would have to get a job down there. But what if our house doesn’t sell right away? We can’t pay our mortgage and rent somewhere else. It’s so stressful to even think about. Our kids are all 3 and under and we want out of CT before they get too far into school.