Need advice

😐 so I’m thinking/planning the baby shower and I’m having trouble deciding which direction I should take.

There is a restaurant I felt in love with (food/location/decoration/etc.) but if I pick this place I’m limited to the amount of guest I can invite.

There is another place which is just a rented location in which I don’t have to limit myself to the amount of guest I want to invite but this place don’t include food/decorations/etc.

I know there are so many people that want to celebrate this moment with me, so thinking that I can only invite a very few amount (30-40) of people gives me anxiety. Specially when my family is like 20 out of those 30 😂

HELP