I’ve been with my man about 5 /6 years now. I’m 27, he’s 41. When we met he initially lied about his age. I tried to look past it and move on.

We now have a 1 year old. This weekend he got mad and wants to break up. He wants to break up bc I don’t enjoy giving him head.

Y’all I do it until he comes at least once a week sometimes twice. Now he is upset bc I was doing it for like 20-39 minutes on Valentine’s Day and he didn’t cum bc he had been drinking. Now suddenly on Sunday he say I owe him head from Valentine’s today. I’m like no I don’t and then he says I do bc it was hurting when o did it on Valentine’s. Mind you he never said that until Sunday! I said I would just not that day bc I didn’t feel like it.

I’ve been apologizing since bc he’s been all silent and saying we’re separating when the lease is up.

I cried myself to sleep last night after apologizing and he said nothing.

Today. He’s like I’m childish and forever gonna be cheated on bc I don’t like giving head and have never sucked his balls. First off sucking balls is just not my thing. Or coming in my mouth. But I can do head until he comes like once a week.

Am I wrong y’all? Do I need to give head on demand and suck balls to keep my man? Like wtf. How often do y’all do it?