Help please

I am around 8 weeks now I told them when I first found out. What would you do or feel in this situation? I have always been close to my grandparents but after I lost my son at 26 weeks and had a m\c in 2017 they believed I should have stopped having kids because I already have two boys. But this will be my last as I have plans to get my tubes tied after this baby. I don't know if it's hormones or what but this hurt me I haven't heard from them since I told them at the beginning of this month