My husband got a vasectomy, without telling me.

My husband knew I wanted more kids. He didn’t but we just had a baby in November so I wasn’t pushing it. I figured we would wait at least a year and talk about it before making a decision.

Well he came home today and told me he had it done. His coworker drove him to and from. Then he went to his dads house to rest until he came home.

We do have three kids, but we own our own home, make over 100k a year on his salary alone and I work as well. So financially we are fine, he keeps trying to say he wants me to finish my masters degree and I won’t if I have another baby.

I don’t know if I should be super pissed that he did this behind my back or devastated that I won’t be having any more children. I keep going between the two.