Is anyone hosting their own shower?

My mom and mother in law do not get along at all, so needless to say my bridal shower turned out to be a total nightmare. My mom hosted and my mother in law kept demanding that my mom invite all her friends, she demanded menu items and wanted my mom to buy all sorts of different decorations and prizes that she wanted there. Needless to say my mom was pissed and kept complaining about it to me. It was a nightmare.

This time my mom said she isn’t dealing with it again. So I decided to host my own shower.. it’s still turning out to be an absolute nightmare and it’s a lot for me to take on by myself. Just wondering if anyone else has to host their own shower and how are you doing it?