Would you breakup

So I tried talking to my husband about what he is hiding on his phone and he doesn’t want to tell me when I clearly know he’s hiding something anyway I know for sure he’s not talking to females because I checked the bill and everything looked ok. He knows I don’t like him watching porn so maybe that could be it I don’t know.. ? Would you breakup with your spouse If he was hiding his phone or not telling you the truth about something ?? We been together six years so I know for sure he’s up too something I tried talking to him in every freaking way you can think about ? He also want me to legalize his papers because currently he’s illegal from Mexico and he’s wanting to get his green card. He told me that’s its beneficial for the both of us if I do that for him. Right now we don’t have any kids together I only have a son from a previous relationship.. and I don’t work either he always tells me he can go find someone else and that I never do anything for him. Look financially I’m stable I don’t worry bout money or having to work .. what should I do? Should I just fuckkk it let him do what he wants ?

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Ch

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Just because you don’t see anything on the phone bill doesn’t mean anything. He could be messaging people through Facebook, Instagram, etc. Always trust your instincts.

C

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I’ve seen all your other posts/polls. I think your relationship as alot of problems in it. Either you both decide it’s worth trying and you go to counseling together or seperate. More than likely separating would sound like a better option.

Ma

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If he says he can go find someone else, let him!!! Just leave him.

Ma

Mayra • Feb 21, 2019
To say that to a partner is manipulation

Ye

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Okay, first thing. If he threatens you that he can find someone else, that to me is a red flag! If someone wants to stay with you, that is something you never say. So for that only reason I wouldn’t fix his papers. I’m Mexican and have family member whom fixed their spouses legal status to either come to the US or stay in the US. If you want to stay or leave is up to you, but don’t fix his paperwork, I don’t like his attitude towards you.

Ca

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I think that's the least of your worries honestly, sounds like he's just using you to get legal. Sorry but that's how I see it

J.

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If you feel he is hiding something then there is a trust issue. I wouldn’t break up just yet but I would suggest counseling.

Ja

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If he can find someone else- let him! Let them be responsible for him and everything else that comes with signing a green card. I would not be with someone who told me they could find someone else... That alone is reason to kick him to the curb. And if you are posting these questions asking total strangers if you should leave.... Hunny I think you already know you should.

co

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It sounds like he is hiding other things. Just because it's not on the bill, doesn't mean it isnt there. There is so much apps for things. He just threw out "I can find someone else" than followed with wanting his green card signed? He wants your signature to commit to something as big as that, but cant even hand over his phone? ..yeah no.. I would go

k

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I would leave 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Ni

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LEAVE HIM!