How would you take this?

SO said that he isn’t happy with his life and that he isn’t happy with himself. He said this right after he realized I had forgotten to put our folded clothes away like I had promised. I really just forgot. We also had just put to sleep our son who was screaming and crying trying to fight the process. Me being my emotional self, the first thing I think is that I’m not bringing enough to the table. That I’m not helping him get to where he needs to be in life. I also have that nagging voice saying that what he really wants to say is that he wishes he had a different life, one where he isn’t tied down to me and our son, laundry, the house cleanup, etc. maybe he wishes he would’ve done things differently to have a more successful life without us draining his energy and without the cost of a child. Or maybe I’m just looking too deep into things, but really, I just needed to vent and see what you all thought and how you would think vs me