He loves me but isn’t in love with me.

We’ve been together for four years. Married for a little over a year and a half. He says he loves me, but isn’t in love with me. I’ve been suspecting this was true for a long time. He doesn’t act like a man in love. When I ask him what he likes about me, he can never come up with an answer.

I don’t even know how to process this. I thought he was in love with me just like I’m in love with him. This hurts. This hurts badly.