MY INNER THIGHS 😩 - PLEASE HELP!!

Okay so my inner thighs are really black. It’s near my vagina but like around it (if that helps). It’s always been really dark ever since I was a kid and like people tell me to lose weight so that the thighs would stop rubbing against each other BUTTTTTT. I feel like its very unattractive during sex. And this is the reason why I’m so insecure. Is there any way to get rid of this? Anything I should apply to my inner thighs so it’s not dark anymore??!!!

This is a very big insecurity to me and this is why I don’t let guys do missionary on me or eat me out😢. I might meet a guy too who’s either going to come to me from NC or I might go to him. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME LADIES😭😭😭😭😭!!!!!