Married to soon?

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So this is kind of a weird question. My fiancé and I have been together 5 years I love him a ton don’t get me wrong but we’ve only been with each other and I didn’t go to college so I constantly think about how different things could be when o turn 21 next month. Going out. Meeting people experimenting, I want to marry him but I also feel like I’m missing a whole part of growing up.
*im not thinking I’m going to find something better. I mean we’ve been together for awhile and I love him more than anything. I just wonder if what I’m missing is even worth it. Am I really missing anything by not sleeping around? I can still party and what not but with him and not random hook ups.

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I got married when I was 20, by the time I was 21 I was fling for divorce.  On the other hand my parents were 17 when they got married and just celebrated 34 years of marriage.  Everyone is different.  I believe it really all comes down to if you both want to make it work.  Marriage takes both people wanting it to work 100%.  If you don’t feel ready, just wait. ♥️

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I can't answer your questions.   But I can assure you that random hookups are highly overrated.

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Whether you want to marry him or not is irrelevant because you're clearly not ready for the commitment of marriage. I wouldn't rush into things if I were you.

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If u can only see urself sexually and emotionally with him.. then he should be enough for u to be with him forever.. however marriage isn’t guaranteed.. u just never know what’s going to happen.. I would just not rush anything until ur more sure.

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Why not experience your 20s with him?

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Don’t marry him , for now at least. You love him and you got forever to be with him. Enjoy your life now with him or see later on you might enjoy your life by yourself. Who knows! But if your feeling this way definitely don’t jump into it. Remember you got forever

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This isn't a weird question at all, it's a smart question to ask yourself before getting married. But it's also a very difficult one to answer. Do you think having these experiences, the things you could only do without him, are things you could live without? I was with my husband when I was your age so I missed out on a lot of the quintessential "20s stuff", but at the time I wasn't thinking about it as missing out because I was having fun with him. Maybe you should make a pro/con list? Or try to have an open conversation with him about it? Maybe he has the same concerns?
*I know the pro/con list sounds super lame but sometimes seeing things written down helps put them into perspective 🤷‍♀️*

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That is a tough call. You may be missing our, but how good is your relationship right now? If you're looking for something better, experience more then You may lose what you already have. I have known people who call it quits to explore, some had major regrets, some didn't.  It all depends on if what you're having is worth throwing away for what you don't have

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