Scared of sex?

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I’m a virgin and scared of sex, I’ve heard from numerous people it hurts the first time a lot and I’m scared now because I am a very small girl and my boyfriend is way bigger than me. I know that you need to feel relaxed but for my first time i feel scared? Anything I should do to try to not be so nervous?? Please anything helps..

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Use protection, but also get your pussy ate first so you can get relaxed and it will help

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Honestly, it depends. My first time didn't really hurt at all because my hymen had already been streched from using toys and wearing menstrual cups years before I had ever met my boyfriend. However it did feel....funny. Like there was a lot of pressure? But if you're with a sweet and loving partner that takes their time to read your body language and get you properly aroused before jumping right into intercourse, you'll be just fine.

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I just lost mine recently and it hurt tbh. Especially the first few strokes but you adjust to his size. I just felt a ton of pressure the whole time.

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Each experience is different
My first time it didnt hurt at all. It just felt like regular sex. Make sure you have lots of foreplay and are super into it or it’ll probably hurt tbh

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It wasn’t painful for me at all. Just take it easy and stop if you need to

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My first time didn’t hurt at all but it didn’t feel that good either until like the first few times. Try to masturbate to stretch yourself out some that should help. Do where your both alone and won’t have anyone barging in on you so yo won’t have anxiety abt that.

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The first time is scary for some, but just try to make yourself comfortable and in the moment with him. Just relax and breath through would be my advice. And make sure you feel comfortable when it happens if you are too stressed out i would wait and try again at a later time, theres no need to rush it

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I was in the same exact situation as you!  I was so scared it was going to hurt, and it did!!!! But honestly, it is totally tolerable. It hurt more than I expected and it was just a lot of pressure down there that I’ve never experienced before. My only advice is to just be 100% sure that youre ready, because at this point, the fear of pain wont really deter you (it will just be like “okay i know this might not be the best but im ready”).  Ask him to take it slow and do a lot of foreplay (this was a mistake I made anddd did it in a car in an applebees parking lot oops!).  It will honestly wasn’t that bad and it stopped hurting within a minute or two and then was just a little uncomfortable at that point but I enjoyed it and didn’t want him to pull out. It’s just the initial entrance that hurts the most in my opinion!  Some people bleed but I didn’t at all!  Just use protection and be safe. Good luck!

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