My husband and i have been married for a year and a half... I've orgasmed twice. I used to fake it all the time but that got so exhausting. I decided to be honest and tell him what was going on. He understands but he doesn't do much about it. He'll go down on me and I'll give him tips but he won't do it for very long. Anytime I'm close to cumming he starts asking me "are you going to cum?" Then i get distracted and anxious about it and it doesnt happen. He'll finger me but it hurts. I tell him what feels good but he always quits as if I'm "taking too long".

I would like to use a vibrator but he's against them and thinks theyre disgusting. Any tips??