Foreplay importance

HELLOO gals, okay so I want to know how long it take for your vagina to stretch after losing your v-card?

Quick background: lost my v like 3 weeks ago (since I wasn’t planning to lose it right away, we were just foreplaying and ofc I was extremely wet). So I didn’t bleed in the moment, spotted the day after and was good. Anywho, ended on bad terms w the guy and have now been seeing someone else.

Had sex with him a day after my period ended and bleeded in the moment, so we blamed it on my period. Decided to see each other 2 days ago, and again I bleeded again ): I didn’t foreplay as much for both times, so I’m thinking it might be because of me not being wet enough? Or is it my body still trying to open up? Help me pls