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I’m currently pregnant (super happy about it ), but my bf isn’t so happy , he has a child already and we somewhat planned this baby , well once I told him I was pregnant he started talking about how I should get an abortion or how I need to leave . I told him I am going to leave Bc I would never have an abortion especially after everything. Well it just hurts me so much Bc I see how much he loves his son , there is some days where he will kiss my belly or rub it but I just push him away. I’m not planning to stay with him Bc I definitely choose my baby over him . But I just don’t get it at all.

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There's not really much advice to give, you've made your choice. And it sounds fair.

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He’s probably just having a hard time right now. Let him come around to it. For now give him time and when he does kiss your belly don’t push him away. He’ll love your baby as much as his son. Don’t worry!

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It sounds like he is coming around, he wouldn't even touch your stomach if he wasn't. Stop pushing him away. If you think he was too mean when you first told him than you should have left then.

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This is  a very sad situation and I hope everything goes well for you. I’m just going to be honest with you people don’t change unless it serves their best interests. Please don’t compare the way he treats his son with the way he will treat your baby. He had that child with someone else, not you. I’m a huge believer in listening to what people say, because they always say their intentions and what they truly mean. He’s already said that he’s not excited for this child, it seems like he’s already resigned to the idea that you will not get an abortion and will eventually come around since he has no choice.  Good luck with your baby and again I hope for your baby’s sake your boyfriend comes around. 😊

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