So I’ve been with my husband 10 years married for almost 8. I am 29 almost and he’s 33. I am a flexible person hot mess myself so not super judgy...we’ve had our issues but pretty much ok...so I go to take his car the other night to pick up meds for our daughter since mine needs new brakes and he panicked like I was wanting to chop off his Weiner...I was like thinking ok that’s weird. Well it smelled like smoke in his car as he does sometimes from work. He always says its guys he works with. Well I was looking around wondering what is he hiding bc of how he acted...I find chew and cigarettes. Now the issue Isint these items. If you wanna smoke smoke shoot I don’t care I don’t like it but who cares it’s a cig. It’s your lungs and my life insurance if you kill over..kidding anyway He has been smoking and chewing for 7YEARS hiding it from me and lying to me about it when I ask. It seems like not a big deal as I type it and sounds small but why lie to me for so long. He’s lied about other more serious things to me and now I wonder what else is he hiding? If he hides something so small? I feel like who is this person? Who talks about my parents bad habits of smoking then poof he does it...I’m upset about the lies years of lies. Am I overreacting? What would you do? I don’t need anyone’s bitchy comments that think I’m a baby...so move it along sister I know it could be worse...I get smoking Isint a serious issue again the lie the seven year lie and what he has put into this to hide it from me is what just kills me. Thank you for reading!!