i like him but he doesnt want commitment
so theres this guy that ive been hanging out with alot and im really close w my sisters bc were close in age so when he comes over he just hangs w all of us and one night when we were alone he was like “we can fuck all the time and just not tell anyone” and i was like im so down bc iive kinda been hoeing around bc my last bf broke me and ik it wasnt the best wat to cope but my hoe days are over now and i havent been w people so i was like perfect so we just made out and cuddled that night and he was like “we would have so much fun” so i thought yanno it was going good places. the next night we went to a party together and my school is small so we knew everyone there so we were splitting up and when i was walking away he grabbed my face and kissed me and i was like okay wtf he doesnt wanna tell anyone but whatever so then he found me later and wanted to leave early and go to my house so we could do the deed and we did and it was sooooo good and he even said so so i was like amazing this is going to be perfect. we hung out the next day again and he came in my room to talk to me and was like i really dont want commitment bc he thought i started to like him blah blah blah and i totally understood bc he just had a gf of 4 years that broke him and cheated on him and he talks abt not wanting a gf all the time so i was like dont worry ik its fine i dont want that either but then he started getting weird and not being as flirty and literally stares at me when he flirts with other girls. and now he calls me crazy and says im too much for him so idk. he doesnt talk to me as much bc “he doesnt want me to like him” but he talks to all these other girls that he knows likes him and i just dont get it. does he like me and not want to ? or am i just overthinking things. idk i really need some advice bc i dont know if i should tell him i like him or just keep it to myself and like die everytime he comes over or flirts with other girls ? help!!!
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