Ehhhhh

So I lost my mother last year in August and I feel like my dad is just always stressed and angry. I get that it’s a lot harder now and stuff but his always having ago at me about a mess that he doesn’t even give me a chance to clean. Sometimes it’s not mine but that doesn’t matter right? I’m always getting yelled at to clean up after myself which I do but my brother just doesn’t care and he gets away with it! Note : my brother has a bit of autism like he gets really worked up about simple stuff. I always have to clean up after him and if I don’t oh, it’s my fault it was there in the first place! He just sits and plays his video games while I’m getting yelled at cause he doesn’t want to clean! And if I ask him to he apparently hears something else! Or he just walks away! I’m so exhausted from this! Like I just got yelled at and my dad goes and tells him , he comes down throws one thing in the bin and then goes back to gaming! It’s all to much sometimes.