Hold up

I just got told because I lost my sex drive , that me and my boyfriend had fallen out of love , and that I’m the giver in the relationship. Ummmm wait , how does me losing my sex drive have to deal with our love ? Neither of us are that worried about sex now just cause we are older and have a life to worry about now instead of sex but my main question was like how to get it back cause I would like to get in the mood and surprise my boyfriend every now an then . 🤦🏻‍♀️ oooo people get under my skin !!!!!