Why do men never admit to anything they done wrong

Why can’t men admit when they fuck up anything at all. Why do they sit there and try to defend their actions like seriously you “forgot” isn’t an excuse not to tell me shit you dumb fucking asshole. Seriously you don’t plan our shit with out consulting me first and making sure I’m able to get off it doesnt matter who has off when and who doesn’t that’s not my problem, I have the hardest time to get off I don’t understand how hard that is to explain to you over and over again. You fucked a lot of shit up I hope you know that, you fucked up our anniversary you fucked up our gender reveal you fucked up a lot more than that over the past few years. Like I’m so beyond pissed it’s not possible for me to even calm down no matter how hard I try and I’ve been trying for 2 hours now. Seriously like I don’t understand how you can’t admit that you fucked up and apologize, I don’t understand how you can’t simply tell people that she can’t get off than we need to do it when I’m available like I don’t wanna go out tomorrow for shit besides to do the one thing I planned to do. So fuck you and fuck all the plans idc about them any more. I hope you fucking learn how to fucking communicate better with me or there’s gonna be no more us.