I’m not going to lie, I had a initial preference. I wanted a little girl. My husband had a slight preference to have a boy (he said he didn’t care, but you should have seen him light up with pride when we found out it was boy, it was cute). Its our first so I think having a preference with you first can be natural.

Then again having a preference is natural with your second because you may want to have the opposite sex that you don’t already have. Or maybe your looking forward to giving your first a same sex sibling. Whatever the case may be, its thinks its normal to have a preferences, and I’m just curious what you all wanted to have and why?