My boyfriend and I are doing long distance and it was going well. Before he left we were living together from pretty much the start. We’re coming up on 2 years April 3rd. I moved in with him and his family July 2017 probably. He left August for school and I moved back home. I visited him up and he’s been back down for breaks too. But recently we got into an argument I just can’t let go. First he accused me of cheating because my friend texted me “more than when he was down”. He would hear the buzz notification over FaceTime. But then he wanted to argue about how I don’t clean and I don’t cook, he doesn’t like my parents, I got to have my “college fun” and sleep around and party before I met him and he said “Now I can’t do that” because he’s obviously with me. We were very close to breaking up which hurt me. It’s both of our longest relationships. I always saw long term with him and clearly he doesn’t. He said he’s excited to move in with me after he’s done with school. But that’s it, he doesn’t think about marriage (YEARS from know is what I want but I thought we were heading in that direction) and kids (again YEARS from now). He told me I have nothing to worry about but maybe he’s not being faithful with me? I’d never cheat on him and it hurts that he would say that. My mom and friends said usually that’s a red flag because they are hiding guilt that they cheated. I really don’t think he would but it’s eating at me. I literally bought a vibrator because I can wait until im with him to actually have sex. I love him and I always have. I’m planning on flying up to see him for our 2 year anniversary but it kinda sucks to plan it when I’m still hurting. Should I talk to him AGAIN over FaceTime about how I’m hurting or just wait till I’m up there with him? I’m 20 and hes 21. Were young and I’m not looking to start a family. I just don’t want to waste my time if he doesn’t care if we broke up or not