I know this probably doesn’t sound as exciting 😂 but my ex boyfriend turned me off from oral because he always found a reason why he didn’t want to go down on me. It made me insecure (it was all my time favorite thing though) I thought I smelt weird or tasted weird. But turns out, overtime I figured out he just likes receiving and not giving. With my now current boyfriend, the last three times have been successful! The first time took around 40 minutes, the second time maybe 20ish and just an hour ago it took 10 minutes! I can enjoy oral again, I finally ditched my vibrator.