How to rebuild trust ?

Jess

I’ve done things in my relationship that’s caused my SO to feel hurt and that he cannot trust me. I’ve never cheated or lied to him but I’ve flirted with other people while drunk. I wasn’t completely transparent with my ex about our relationship and it’s made him question where he stands with me. I love him with all of my heart and just feel nothing but guilt and regret because he feels he’s not a priority in my life when he absolutely is. He means the world to me and I’ve just made silly mistakes that I hoped we can work through. Anyways he broke up with me and he’s extremely disappointed in how the relationship turned out. We still talk about everything. He checks in with me to see how I’m feeling. He says he Only wants to be friends and doesn’t feel he can trust anybody. He’s going to counseling to work on himself and learning how to work through things in a relationship. I’m going to go to counseling as well. He doesn’t do anything any different. There’s just no physical intimacy. Even though he’s bought up having sex. He says he wants to work on getting to know each other again. We work together, own a business together, and hang in the same circle of friends. I’m confused if theres a chance for us but in any event I would like to work on rebuilding trust. I just don’t have the slightest idea of how to do that and what that looks like for us to even try again. I’ve apologized over and over. I just don’t know how to get through. And I KNOW he loves me.